rooted:

Coming Home To Yourself

Private Coaching for High-Achieving Women Who Want Connection Without Self-Abandonment

The deepest identity repair for women ready to stop performing for love, and start living from truth.

You’ve done the work. But you’re still stuck in the same patterns:

  • Saying yes when your body says no.

  • Shrinking yourself to keep the peace.

  • Swallowing your truth to be "seen as good."

You know how to succeed. But you don’t know how to feel safe being fully you.

You’ve outgrown surface-level fixes. You’re ready to heal at the root.

Welcome to the work that changes how you live…not just how you think.


What if your relationship with yourself became the safest one you’ve ever known?

Rooted is a 6-month, trauma-informed coaching experience for high-achieving women ready to stop abandoning themselves in relationships…so they can live, love, and lead from wholeness

This isn’t mindset work, or behavioural management therapy.
This is deep identity work.
We don’t just talk about your patterns, we rewire them at the root, through somatic healing, relational repair, and nervous system safety.

Who is Rooted for?

This is for the high-achieving woman who:

- Feels invisible in her closest relationships.

- Has done therapy but still feels stuck.

- Over-gives, over-thinks, over-rationalises her needs.

- Wants to feel emotionally safe, not just intellectually aware.

- Craves connection…but not at the cost of self.

- Doesn’t want to be fixed. Just held in her complexity.

You don’t need another mindset tool. You need to rebuild trust with yourself, so you stop abandoning your truth just to stay connected.

In Rooted, we move beyond surface fixes and into the root of your relational patterns - through somatic healing, breathwork, and deep inquiry.

This isn’t about doing more.

It’s about becoming safe enough to live from who you really are.

Rooted is where emotional intelligence meets embodied transformation.


This is what becomes possible when your nervous system feels safe enough to stop performing:

1. From People-Pleasing → To Self-Leadership

  • You speak your needs clearly and unapologetically.

  • Boundaries stop feeling like a threat, they become a lifeline.

  • You stop managing others' emotions at the cost of your own.

2. From Emotional Overwhelm → To Inner Safety

  • Your triggers become entry points…not spirals.

  • You feel calm, grounded, and more at home in your body.

  • Stress no longer hijacks your nervous system.

3. From Overgiving → To Energetic Integrity

  • You reclaim your time, your voice, and your "no."

  • You rest without guilt.

  • You stop mistaking self-sacrifice for love.

4. From Survival Habits → To Nourishing Rituals

  • You stop punishing yourself with routines.

  • You create rituals that restore, not deplete.

  • Movement, rest, and nourishment become acts of devotion.

5. From Role-Playing → To Real Relationships

  • You stop shape-shifting for approval.

  • You show up fully…without fear of rejection.

  • You feel seen, safe, and deeply connected.


Why Nothing Has Worked Until Now

  • Mindset work alone won’t shift deeply embedded trauma responses.

  • Talking about your pain doesn’t heal it, embodying self-trust does

  • Boundaries won’t stick if your nervous system still equates love with self-sacrifice.

Rooted doesn’t just teach you self-trust…it rewires your baseline, through consistent somatic practice, emotional safety, and present-moment awareness.

What Makes Rooted Different:

This isn’t performance coaching disguised as healing.

I created this because I lived it.

I know what it’s like to measure your worth by how much you can carry.
To be the dependable one. The peacekeeper.
To say “I’m fine” when you’re quietly unraveling inside.

I wasn’t afraid of conflict. I was afraid of being abandoned if I showed up as my full self.

It wasn’t burnout from doing too much.
It was the exhaustion of abandoning myself over and over again to keep the peace.

Rooted was born from the turning point, when I stopped performing and started listening to the truth my body had been holding all along.

What I offer isn’t strategy.
It’s nervous system truth-telling.
It’s the kind of transformation you can’t fake, because it was earned in your body.

This is nervous system repair, identity work, and emotional depth for women who’ve already done the therapy, but still feel stuck.

You won’t be handed a framework to perfect.

You’ll be met in your complexity, your intensity, and your intelligence - without needing to shrink or explain.

I bring three decades of experience in healthcare, trauma-informed practice, and somatic healing.

I’ve worked with hundreds of high-achieving women who’ve told me: therapy helped, but didn’t change the deeper patterns. I see how inherited beliefs and relational wounds silently passed through generations, shaping the way we love, give, and belong.

Now is the time to break that cycle…by healing at the level where it began.

My approach draws from:

  • Compassionate Inquiry (trained with Dr. Gabor Maté)

  • Breathwork and nervous system regulation as daily tools for emotional safety; including what I call 'nervous system truth-telling,' the process of helping your body feel safe enough to tell the truth you’ve been trained to suppress

  • Parts work and inner child integration that meets you where your patterns began

This is not therapy. It’s the integrative bridge between insight and embodiment.

This space holds your wholeness, not just your healing.

What Happens When You Stop Abandoning Yourself?

  • You set boundaries without guilt, and people respect them.

  • You stop over-giving and over-explaining, because your presence alone is enough.

  • You feel safe in love, because you finally trust yourself.

  • You stop negotiating your needs for approval, and experience deep, mutual connection.

  • You lead your life from clarity, confidence, and full self-ownership.

Imagine setting boundaries effortlessly, experiencing relationships where you're valued, and leading a life rooted in self-trust.

Rooted - The Framework

💡 A – Authenticity → Rebuild self-trust & uncover who you are beneath the people-pleasing.
💡 B – Boundaries → Hold your own needs & emotional integrity without guilt.
💡 C – Connection → Create relationships that honour you, without self-sacrifice.

What’s Included in Rooted?

6 Months of Private Trauma-Informed Coaching

Biweekly 60-minute 1:1 Sessions (weekly for the first 3 months) (18 Sessions)

WhatsApp Support Between Sessions

Personalised Embodied Practices + Breathwork

The Cost Of Staying Stuck

Every time you override your own needs, you train yourself to settle.
- Financial Cost: Over-extending at work = under-earning, overworking, and staying small.
- Relational Cost: You resent your partner but don’t feel safe asking for more.
- Emotional Cost: Every time you abandon yourself, you reinforce the belief that you don’t matter.

Rooted doesn’t just help you break the cycle…it makes self-trust your new normal.

clients’ transformation:

I thought I just needed to manage my stress better. Turns out, I needed to stop abandoning myself. Before working with Claryn, I was overwhelmed - at work, at home, in social settings. I thought the answer was pushing through, but the harder I tried, the worse I felt. I didn’t realise I was trapped in patterns I had learned in childhood - ones that kept me over-giving, overthinking, and exhausted.

Through our journey, I rediscovered myself, established guilt-free boundaries, and embraced joy in my daily life.
— From Emotional Overwhelm to Inner Safety: Catherine's Story
I spent years trying to change my mum. Turns out, I needed to change how I responded to her.”

Before working with Claryn, I struggled with boundaries, doubted my decisions, and felt trapped in the same painful dynamics. I wanted her to see me, to validate me, to change. But what I really needed was to heal the part of me that was still waiting for permission to trust myself.

Through this work, I stopped abandoning myself. I built deeper intimacy in my marriage, set boundaries without guilt, and finally started choosing myself.
— From People-Pleasing to Self Leadership: Rebecca's Story
I spent so much time trying to figure out what was wrong with my partner, only to realise the answers were within me.” Before working with Claryn, I felt lost, frustrated, and trapped in patterns I couldn’t break.

Through our work, I learned to take responsibility - not in a way that made me feel guilty, but in a way that gave me back my power.

I stopped blaming, started healing, and finally created the kind of relationship I had always wanted - without trying to change anyone else
— From Role Playing to Real Relationships: Claire's Story

This work isn’t about becoming someone new.

It’s about reclaiming who you were before survival shaped your patterns.

You’re not broken. You’ve been surviving.

The time is now to come home to yourself.

Investment: £6,000 for 6 Months

(Payment plans available)

Next Step:

[Book a Free Wholeness Scan Call] → This is an opportunity to see if your system and mine feel safe enough to do this work together.

This call is anything but convincing or persuading you.

This call is a field to explore compatibility - how your nervous system responds to mine, and whether the pace, depth, and rhythm of this container actually feel right for you.

You don’t need more information. You need a space that’s safe enough to stop performing.

This is that space.

This work is Rooted.

Let’s begin.

Hi, I’m Claryn

a trauma-informed coach, certified Conscious Connected Breathwork practitioner, and Registered Nurse & Health Visitor with nearly 30 years of experience bridging Western medicine and holistic healing.

I’ve worked with over 1,000 women, children, and families, helping them navigate deep emotional patterns, nervous system healing, and relational transformation.

I’ve trained with Dr. Gabor Maté in Compassionate Inquiry and specialise in helping high-achieving women break free from self-abandonment in relationships-so they can stop over-giving, trust their own voice, and create connections where they feel fully seen and valued.

This is the work I wish I had access to years ago.
Now, it’s yours.


FAQ - How Do I Know This Is Right for Me?

“I’ve tried therapy before, and it didn’t work. How is this different?”

Therapy helps with awareness - but awareness alone doesn’t create change.
Rise Into You integrates somatic healing, nervous system rewiring, and personalised support, offering a holistic approach not found in typical programmes

“I’m scared I won’t follow through…”

It’s okay to feel uncertain. This isn’t about being ‘ready’ … it’s about being willing to start, in your own time, with support every step of the way.

"I'm concerned about the time commitment."

The programme is designed to integrate seamlessly into your life, with flexible scheduling and ongoing support to ensure your success.

“I don’t know if I can afford it…”

  • If you’re asking “Can I afford this?’ …also ask: ‘What has it cost me to keep abandoning myself?’ This isn’t about adding pressure, it’s about offering a pathway back to peace.

  • What’s the emotional toll of spending another year filtering yourself in relationships?

  • Payment Plan Available – 6 payments of £1000.

Who This is NOT for:

🚫 Anyone looking for a quick-fix or surface-level self-improvement.
🚫 People who aren’t willing to do the deep work.

This work is Rooted.

Still got questions?